Understanding the Abducting Parent’s Perspective: Child Abduction

By Kaja Viknes

Senior Associate

Child abduction is a serious issue that evokes strong concerns and challenges. It is important to however acknowledge the complexities that some parents face, often leading them to take drastic measures. While the legal implications are clear, the motivations and circumstances behind these actions can be more complex than they appear.

Many parents who find themselves in situations that lead to child abduction do so out of a profound desire to protect their children. These individuals may believe they are acting in the best interest of their child, fearing for their safety or well-being in an environment they perceive as harmful. This protective instinct, while resulting in a criminal act, stems from love and concern.

In some cases, parents may not fully understand the legal implications of their actions. When navigating complex custody disputes, many may feel cornered and desperate. Some may mistakenly believe that removing their child from the country is a legitimate way to shield them from perceived threats. Whilst this lack of awareness does not excuse the action, it does highlight the need for better education around international child abduction. Could ignorance of the law be used to justify such action? No!

The emotional strain on parents involved in these situations can be overwhelming. Many are grappling with intense feelings of fear, helplessness, and desperation. They may feel that the legal system has failed them, leading them to take matters into their own hands. The journey of an abducting parent is often caused by heart-wrenching decisions and the fear of losing their child, creating a situation where emotions can cloud judgment. It is extremely important for parents who find themselves in these situations to seek help.

What can be done?

Understanding the legal frameworks and accessing support systems can make a significant difference on the steps they may end up taking. Engaging with family lawyers, counsellors, Reunite, and other support groups can result in valuable guidance. It is important to understand that there are legal avenues to resolve custody disputes in the absence of agreement.

As Family lawyers, we can work towards solutions that prioritise the well-being of children and families, ensuring that no parent feels they have to resort to such desperate measures.

For more information on this matter or to find out how we can help you, please contact Kaja Viknes or fill in our online enquiry form and a member of our Team will be in touch.